Are You a Queen?

As women, we have felt and been referred to as more fragile/weaker gender for decades if not centuries. ⠀

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What we fail to realise is the 𝗶𝗺𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘀𝗲 𝗽𝗼𝘄𝗲𝗿 we carry within. And we give it away so easily. ⠀

The number of times I have heard other women (and myself) complaining how our men don't show up and treat us like queens that we think we are....⠀

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My question is: Do you treat yourself like a queen? Do you treat your man like a king?⠀

By giving into our insecurities, not healing them but projecting them onto our man and other people in our life, we give our power away, we abandon our queendom.⠀

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When we feel squeezed into a corner, faced with our own darkness, it's so easy to blame the other, but the only way out and into a true contentment is to look your demons in the eye and basically tell them off.

Realise you are not that little girl anymore.

The one that felt abandoned, unloved, neglected, not enough or too much...⠀

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𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝗮 𝗾𝘂𝗲𝗲𝗻 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗶𝘁'𝘀 𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗲 𝘁𝗼 𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗿𝘁 𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗹𝗶𝗸𝗲 𝗼𝗻𝗲 (not with arrogance and vanity, but humbleness and integrity).⠀

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That guy that was "not showing up" will either disappear from your life as he doesn't fit your new vibration or he will shine as a king and you will live happily ever after👫❤️🔥